We are doing this because we think this is right for us and our children and our families. It doesn’t matter what other people’s reasons are for doing their thing. They are not us. And we are not them. We can learn from each other, but ultimately we each must make our own choices about what our lives look like and where we are going and how we are going to get there. Whatever our reasons are, it helps to remember them. It helps to remember why we are doing what we are doing. It helps to remember what got us here.